Steps to happiness everybody knows:

You can’t be all things to all people
You can’t do all things at once
You can’t do all things equally well
You can’t do all things better than everyone else
Your humanity is showing just like everyone else’s
 
So:
You have to find out who you are, and be that
You have to decide what comes first, and do that
You have to discover your strengths, and use them
You have to learn not to compete with others,
Because no one else in in the contest of “being you”
 
Then:
You will have learned to accept your own uniqueness
You will have learned to priorities and make decisions
You will have learned to live with your limitations
You will have to learned to give yourself the respect that is due
And you will be a most vital mortal
 
Dare to believe:
That you are a wonderful, unique person
That you are a once-in-all history event
That it’s more than a right; it’s a duty to be who you are
That life is not a problem, but a gift to cherish
And you’ll be able to stay one up on what used to get you down
 
(Unknown Author)

Alex Fox